Hello everyone my name is Michael I am 29 years old, it is difficult for a person in small towns to choose a couple in the subject BDSM that it’s hard to pick a couple in the subject is difficult and in cities Ionik, not to mention our city, I write my articles to help you dear friend Finding a mate to steer you in the right direction of search. Perhaps my articles will help you understand yourself.

About Mikhail, this is my real name. I do not hesitate a bit and do not make a secret of my passion for BDSM, I’m European-looking guy with a height of 175 cm without overweight with beautiful gray eyes with a very pretty face, and usually a short haircut, interested ladies and Gentlemen, as one great man said, I don’t remember who such as I am on the road, do not roll on it, they drive a car and sometimes go over a zebra.

I have quite a lot of experience in BDSM in general, somewhere around 12 years old, I had a thematic relationship with girls and with a pair of M + F there were relations in the 24/7 LS format I was in the role of the lower one, I tried one as the upper, probably I tried all kinds of practices that are.

Therefore, it will simply not be fair if I do not share with you, dear friend, this experience, feelings and emotions that I have experienced. Perhaps you will underline something for yourself.

Let's start with the basics of where to start any sexual experience? from whom it is purchased, that is, you need to get acquainted with the person who shares your interests, and how to get acquainted with a simple inhabitant?

The first and most accessible way online dating sites in this case, I consider only the thematic sites bdsm.

It's all very difficult if you are a guy and you want to find yourself a girl for thematic relations, the upper or lower chances you have almost no, let's say less than 0, 1% of 100%

The reason for such sad statistics lies in the fact that 60% plus minus all so-called top girls on similar sites are ordinary prostitutes there they work on these sites, including all the subject groups in contact, if you dear friend decided to just relax and take off the girl, then yes 100 % success from the first 5 messages is guaranteed in the questionnaires and you can see the rates.

The second main reason lies in the inadequacy of the men themselves, more precisely in what they write, but more on that later, let's see the second category.

the second category was thrown by their percentages 20% of the total number, dear friend, they will try to get you divorced either virtually for a small amount, or really, but for a more decent, example of such a classical divorce; we have a conditional sucker podravchu under porn in the hope of finding a dream girl he looks at the questionnaire finds a beautiful sexual girl writes to her with a thought sex, Skype calls where she pisses him in his ears what a wonderful sucker he is and how she likes him and in general she has spent all her life as a lohaped as he has been looking for how she wants him real, says how she wants to meet soon, well during the trouble of money is that she doesn’t have on the road and then the happy sucker, bandaging her calluses on her palms, runs to the ATM and translates so a decent amount with thoughts how not to help the poor girl to the same she is so cool and we didn’t talk so coolly with her cheat will come here will come off. as a result, the sucker sends pieces 5 or even more and the cool girl no longer takes the tube or does not go into the network coverage areas or the guy instead of the girl will answer with a hitting that you are such a goat if you call again, he will break the whole face of you and everything like that from such a collision a sucker about money and forgets having come to his senses from shock, the sucker realizes that he is not just a sucker, but such a finished loser and with a bowing head goes home further to gawk his sausage in his hand.

variants of such divorces a car and two small carts; I only brought one way out of hundreds

the third category is virtuals of their percentages 10% of the total number, be sure dear friend that in most cases girls will also be asked to give you money for a virtual one and it’s imperative that you transfer the first money to her virtual wallet, but after the transfer it’s not a fact get something from her.

If just for 500 rubles you got half the trouble, it’s so that after virtual sex on Skype comes a file where you are dear friend in the most indecent postures filmed on video, and if you don’t pay the text under the file, I’ll upload it to the network pull money from you as much as they can, but you can not pay and lay out.

There are, of course, girls who are truly virtual, let's say so disinterestedly, but let's say a little bit like that for one virtue girl up to 20 guys, or even more.

The fourth category is various traders who allegedly sell their photos, their dirty pants and socks. tights, insoles. used pads and other game

I will not harshly criticize such people because demand creates supply if they sell, then someone buys and everyone is happy to say only for yourself to buy dirty pants so that they sniff lick and jerk off the dubious pleasure because you buy this device for a fetish from a completely unfamiliar man you do not know about the state of health of this person.

Buying private photos and videos is also not advisable because the entire Internet is filled up with any porn for every taste, again, what is appropriate and what is not, each person decides for himself, I just wrote my opinion to someone that pleases.

Another category is the guys who sit under women's profiles, as a rule, they are gay or bi guys; their number is heavily veiled on each site in different ways.

And what if you're a dear friend, an upper or lower girl, what are your chances, it would seem, probably, 100% because if you look at any site-based dating site for one girl, 2-3 guys go by and if you are lower then generally up to 10 guys but unfortunately this is not the case, and the reason for this we are men more precisely what we write if you look at what messages come to girls, then the picture will be such 60-70% of all messages are requests to piss, shit in your mouth to eat shit, requests to take toilet slavery, another 20 % request to lick anything pussy, ass, legs, about So the crazy people ask them to castrate or cut off any part of the body, and only a small percentage send adequate messages, but more often after a short correspondence everything goes into a toilet theme, strapon or licking of something.

Many people forget or do not know at all that girls who are looking for a couple on thematic sites in the life of ordinary people and with a partner, behave like ordinary couples

Therefore, such messages that come to girls with the proposal of toilet themes cause them only disgust or they will think that the author of such a message is not all at home.

Typically, girls looking for a couple after sitting a little on thematic sites after reading the message, realizing that there is nothing special to catch here.

Let us make a conclusion, dear friend, if you decide to look for a couple on topical dating sites, then you have very few chances, you will lose your time in the best case, and you can lose money and stay with an unpleasant feeling on your soul after such an acquaintance.

How to be in this case, where to find a partner because the topic of BDSM is very specific.

Dear friend in our time, people interested in bdsm topics to unite in the so-called bdsm clubs these clubs hold events for everyone who usually meet in night clubs after midnight, information about such clubs can be found on the Internet, for example, in contact there you can immediately see how many people are in this club Is it a fake club and pay attention to the members of this club? How many friends do they have in contacts? If the majority have one or two friends, then this club is created by one person and all the profiles are funded. membership in a club with a fake web you are asked for money in return of course you do not get nothing and if the club's all right all that you need to wait for the event and come to it then everything depends on you your intelligence and charm.

There are two types of events held by bdsm clubs, open and closed meetings for open can come to anyone, but closed only to a limited circle of people, so to speak, each club has its own rules of behavior, they can be different from each other, so make it easy for your dear friend to study and do not break during the entire meeting, I will write only the general rules of the fundamental requirements of etiquette.

These etiquette rules are taken from different Internet sources.

Do not touch anyone, even in a friendly way, even if a naked woman (or a man) is two steps away from you and is smiling cheerfully, this does not mean that you can slap her on the pope, and even pat your hand without any permission. On the other hand, it is certainly possible to offer a hand for a handshake, ask permission to hug, kiss, examine piercings that someone is bragging about, and this will not be regarded as an invasion, in any case, if you are able to adequately react to a possible failure.

In many clubs, the use of alcohol and drugs during the sessions is prohibited, so do not take them with you, without first consulting with the session manager.

Never mention session participants in a conversation with third parties without their direct and explicit consent. Do not post on the Web (on forums or anywhere else) any information by which you can identify them. Even an inconsistent mention of a particular person in an email can be regarded as a violation of etiquette. What will you be if a friend who, as you think, cannot be familiar with the person you told him about, playfully puts the details about this person that became known to him to his boss, or colleague, or relative, and he suddenly realizes Who are we talking about, for some minor details in the description - such as the name, nickname, original hairstyle or extravagant clothes? The world is small, and it is impossible to sacrifice someone’s private life to the desire to brag about your adventures. Usually, a scene description that makes it impossible to identify the participants or owners of the party is considered valid, but even in this case, politeness requires asking permission ... If you are not sure, ask the session manager if you can talk about the party. By default, that is, unless otherwise specified, it is impossible.

Do not touch other people's devices and toys without asking. If someone gave you to hold the whip - it will be polite to once again ask if you can wave it, even just in the air. Do not check on yourself the sharpness of someone else's knives or studded wheels - it may be that the owner just sterilized them before use.

Clothes and gender, as a rule, speak little about the interests, preferences, positioning and experience of a person. If the rules of a particular party do not set dresscode, people dress as they like. For some, clothing symbolizes their interests, but for most experienced BDSMers, clothing does not mean anything unless symbolism is their fetish. Many sincerely devoted to their Masters, fully owned by them subs do not wear a collar and do not crawl at the master's feet at parties. And on someone who does not belong to anyone and does not intend to belong, on the contrary, the collar can be, simply because he likes it so much. Similarly, if someone put on so much black leather that would be enough for a whole cow, and brandishes a whip, it is not necessary that you have an experienced and respected Top. But that bare-faced innocent-looking girl in a white silk nightgown and a charming young man in jeans and a simple T-shirt, chatting cute in the living room, may not be sabi and a pretender to her, what they look like - that is, maybe, of course, and so , - but they can be the “coolest” Tops in the whole company discussing their affairs.In short, clothes - black leather, latex, vinyl, heels, corsets, collars, etc. - just fetishes, and not signals that a person belongs to BDSM. Didn't you know?

Also, be tolerant when confronted with the unexpected. In particular, even if you are under the impression of what is happening, try not to stare too openly at something you have never seen before. Watching and learning is great, often this is exactly what is needed, but each club has its own ideas about permissible manifestations of the reaction. If you see for the first time how two men play a love game with each other, or if a woman at the other end of the room caresses another woman is too hot for prying eyes, or if your experience with people dressed as the opposite sex is so small, that this prevents you from having a relaxed chat in the living room with one of them on abstract topics, follow your behavior, do not be like a ten-year-old boy telling an indecent joke. If you are shocked by the amount of blood during ritual incisions, or the screams that seem to be filled with hate and rage at the peak of the scene, or if you didn’t assume that you’ll see a nipple piercing or anything that you didn’t expect and seemed too extreme, cope with with your shock, or exit the gaming room.

Before the party, read the BDSM literature, try to imagine what you can see. In these texts one can also learn important information from the field of etiquette, for example, how to address a slave in the presence of his Master. Namely: in no case do not behave as if it is your slave!

This general rule applies to all sabs, bottoms, tops, homes. Without being your regular partner, no one is obliged to do anything other than the observance of generally accepted daily standards of politeness. No one should run to bring you a drink or to agree with your opinions. The address “Lord”, “Mistress” to anyone with whom you are talking, or in front of whose nose you put ice in your glass, just on the grounds that this person looks like the Upper, is considered a bad form in many clubs. Party members are usually introduced by calling their names or nicknames. I note in parentheses that in very rare cases, the session rules provide that the subs participating in it should serve all the Upper, but, according to my observations, this practice is not common, and it may rather take place at a very closed, very private party, where guests undergo a thorough pre-selection. If you are not sure, ask the session manager.

This is not the whole list of rules, as I wrote earlier for each club, they are different and supplemented with a lot of details.

I hope dear friend that this article was useful and interesting for you if you want to chat with me ask questions my contacts: my Discord vi # 3315 for those who do not know Discord is a free program for communicating like Skype, I will be glad to talk with you regardless of who you are in the subject of the top, bottom, or even curious.

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The next article will be about how to determine when dating whether your partner is suitable or not.