So, you are one of those millions of women who have learned that their husband fantasizes about how you have sex with other men. Welcome to our club! I hope the shock has passed. It is possible that you yourself have already understood how lucky you are. If not, then you MUST realize this if you follow the example of other women who have fallen into a similar situation.

If you, like most of us, had no idea about the desires of your husband. You lived a quiet married life and thought you knew your husband better than he did. Ha! This is ridiculous!

Depending on how long your marriage lasts, you could cool down (or not) a little towards each other in terms of sex. Face it. The routine comes in every bedroom. If this has not happened to you yet, do not think that this will never happen. Some of you may have already had connections on the side, or even thought of leaving your husband because of the everydayness in family life. Then you somehow found out about his hidden fantasy and, fortunately, realized that this could be a great solution for both of you. You are lucky, even if you yourself have not understood this.

He wants you to have sex with another man. Wow! Not sure? You are not alone. I felt the same way. But think for a moment about the opportunities that are opening up. Look at the unhappy married women living a boring life without sex. Look at cheating women who lie to themselves and their husbands and put their marriage at risk of divorce. Do not laugh at them. Once they were the same as you, or could become such. But now you are different. If you read this article and follow the advice contained in it, then you will open a road that will lead to sexual satisfaction, similar to what you experienced as newlyweds, you will fall in love again with your husband and value him more than ever. before

You are on your way to becoming a hotwife.

Hotwife (in runet is more common the term "seksvayf") - a woman who freely has sex with other men with the full consent and approval of her husband. Her husband’s involvement in this process may vary. In fact, it will depend on YOU. Some wives prefer to do it alone, without any interaction with her husband. Others like it when the husband watches or participates in the process. However, in all these cases, the woman is free to have sex with others, while her husband remains completely monogamous and faithful.

Sounds crazy? But believe me this is easy to achieve and your sex life will become so bright that it will surpass your wildest fantasies. In such a relationship, the husband is often called the “Kukold” (cuckold), which simply means “the man to whom the wife is cheating.” Of course, in this case “adultery” is an incorrect word, since the actions of the wife do not hide from her husband, but on the contrary, he is aware of all her adventures. In fact, its awareness and approval are a major component. It will excite him like never before.

I suspect that you are reading this article because you already know about the desires of your husband and, perhaps, are considering the possibility of becoming Hotwife. That's fine, but let me give you some tips.

First, do not rush things. Let everything go on as usual. Relationship with a husband who likes such things is different from the "ordinary" married life, so first you need to prepare for such relationships, and only after that slowly move on to them. It may take some time until you stop feeling awkward, having sex in front of him, or it may take time to get used to it, or to the fact that you can leave home to have sex with others. .You need to encourage his desire to see you with other men and make it as enjoyable as he is to you.

If you are not in a hurry and follow my advice, in the end, your husband will let you do anything for sex. Everything! And they will want more from you. He will wait for it with the same impatience as you (if not more). He will receive sexual satisfaction from your meetings with other men, and, most importantly, the connection between you will become as strong as ever. He will love you as much as he has never loved before!

In a Hotwife relationship, there are three levels of your husband's engagement:

1. You meet with other men alone, without any involvement of her husband. He may not even know them and never meet with them in ordinary life. You meet with them yourself and make all the preparations without the need for approval by her husband. Other men may or may not know about your lifestyle, or be aware of what your husband knows about them. They may not even know that you are married if you want to remove the ring and present yourself as unmarried.

2. You meet other men with your husband, he knows them, and they know him. In this case, all interactions between men occur on a social, possibly on a friendly level. Your husband is not involved in sex. The husband may even himself find other men or help you in preparations for meetings with them (your “dates”). However, he is not involved in sex, except, perhaps, the case if you let him hear what is happening, for example, by telephone.

3. Sexual relationships with other men in the presence or even with the participation of the husband in the style of ménage à trois (Swedish family). In the classic case, you have sex with your lover, while the husband watches the process, but does not participate in it.

As an option for the development of this scenario, the involvement of the husband may manifest itself in the style of a “Swedish family” or a classic “triangle”. This relationship may include any predetermined amount of sex. Some wives prefer their husbands to have sex, you may also choose this option. As you will see later, everything will depend on YOUR conditions.

Any of these levels can be selected, depending on the pair and its preferences. It is important to know how far you, and to a lesser extent your husband, are willing to go, so it is important to openly discuss these things and set goals and boundaries.

Make sure that the “other” man fully understands the rules of the game. It is necessary that he understand what place he occupies in the life of a couple. In addition, it is important that he respects all the boundaries you set (you set the boundaries, not your husband).

With the right approach, the newly-minted Hotwife can quickly learn how to get the most from their sexual encounters and help her husband achieve new horizons of pleasure, despite the fact that he will be in a more passive role than in the one in which he was previously married . But this will take time, since most of the men are used to taking the lead.

Before you start, you need to remember one very important thing. Hotwife is not just sex. This is also CONTROL. If you belong to the majority of women, then control was most likely your husband’s lot. Right? Well, now we can change that.

Hotwife is what YOU want. YOUR sexual pleasure. YOUR rules in sex. I know it may sound weird. But as soon as you try, you will enjoy it incredibly! Think about YOURSELF, not about HIM. It seems to be selfish, but it will excite him more than anything you have done so far! The changes taking place in you will make him glow with passion.

So, here is the procedure at the very beginning of such a relationship. After that, as soon as you feel the taste (and the husband will crave more), you will be able to do everything that will bring you incredible pleasure.After all, you are a hotwife! (You will not read such things anywhere else).

Remember the rule number 1 - the main goal is that YOU, and NOT he controlled the sexual side of your life. You do what you want, when you want and how you want, with who you want and your husband can only accept this. All clear?

At the very beginning, you need to lay the foundation for a relationship. If you do everything right, he will become an absolutely faithful, wonderful husband, as soon as he learns how to get sexual satisfaction from what you will satisfy. At the same time, you can enjoy this freedom and release your little slut, who is hiding inside every woman.

Do not let him decide what sex, for how long and with whom to engage you. Remember the rule - - NO SELECT and NO VOICE RIGHT. In the event that you want to jerk a member to another guy or sleep with all the Starbucks staff - he shouldn’t mind. He does not have to decide whether you will go to another man’s house or bring him to your bedroom. He should not have a say in when or with whom this will occur. Control will pass to him again as soon as you allow him to talk about it. And this is NOT what you want. Control should only be in your hands. Believe me, YOU will love it as soon as it happens, and HE will love it too (even if it doesn't know why).

When you want to meet someone, or invite him to your place, just calmly put your husband before the fact. Do not give him the right to choose in this matter. Say, for example: "They will come to me tomorrow night and we are going to spend some time in bed." Or so: "I am going to meet time with someone on Friday evening and plan to stay with him until morning." Like this. You can tell him as much detail as you want (before or after), but do not let him influence you and do not allow him to change anything on your own at these meetings. Be decisive. Clearly let him know that you made this decision because it is you who want it. Control your own sexual aspect in your relationship this evening. Let him know that today you are the main one.

If you want, you can tell him about what will happen even before it happens. This greatly excites many couples. Share with him all the details of your desire. However, the idea is to show him that you have made a decision based on YOUR needs and desires, and his desires in relation to yours are not decisive now. Show him that you are a sexually attractive woman who can satisfy her desires without his help. The idea that you are going to another man for sexual satisfaction will drive him mad from lust for you (trust me!).

It is important that he is involved in every stage. Share everything. Depending on your relationship, you can allow your husband to hear your conversations with another man, share with him the details of his plans, etc. It is important that he participate, but only as a spectator, and NOT as a participant.

This will create for him an atmosphere electrified by sex before you even have sex! If you are considering calling someone and making an appointment, tell him about it. Let the anticipation and excitement increase. This is a game. Share with him, it will excite you BOTH.

When the day comes to meet with her lover, deliberately keep a distance from her husband all day. Come up with several tasks for him to have something to do, for example, some work to prepare your evening. Send him a bottle of good wine or ask him to do the cleaning.

Many couples enjoy the ritual when a husband helps his wife prepare for a date. He can help you take a bath or shower and wipe your body. Let him put on your panties and stockings.I talk to my husband and tease him, saying that he helps me prepare for the other man’s member and things like that.

This lays the foundation for your relationship in advance. Thus you become the main and create an atmosphere in which he begins to mentally give up his rights to you, transferring them to another man. It also strengthens the new power that you have. It will also make the sex between you more intense in the next few days after the meeting, when it will enjoy you again. This is an important part of the game, possessing a powerful attraction and helping to build connections between you.

If you invited a man home, let your husband prepare a place where you will have fun (living room, bedroom, etc.). Dim the lights. While you are waiting for a guest, light some candles and turn on the soft music. If everything happens in the bedroom, let him prepare a place from which to watch.

After your lover appears, EVERYTHING must change. Agree in advance on the role that your husband will play. If he is present in the room, you can do several things that will create the right atmosphere for an unforgettable night, both for him and for YOU.

First, prepare an “observation point” for it, so that you and your lover can have sex as if your husband is NOT there at all (this is VERY important). Usually I tell guys to not pay attention to her husband. After a few jokes, my husband rarely interacts with us. The excitement that I get from having sex with a new man, while getting a person I love hard to explain with words is just something incredible!

After the lover enters your home do not hesitate and do not talk too long. This is a common mistake. Do not delay the process. Everyone knows why he came here. For sex. There is no reason to postpone it. Since all this is being done because of sex, quickly find the opportunity to “melt the ice” and start. This is part of your “power” that you now possess, taking control of the situation. Show your desire to another man, anticipating your intimacy, while your husband will watch it.

If I have already met a man before, I usually give him a strong kiss right on the threshold, and if I’m late, I can gently stroke his groin, giving him the opportunity to respond to affection.

Then I take him to the living room, while the husband follows us or is already waiting for us there. Depending on the man, sometimes I prefer to turn on porn on TV with the sound turned off and turn on light background music. Together with a glass of good wine is the perfect way to continue without delay.

Now you can slow down a little, if you want, or vice versa in impatience to tear off all your clothes and pounce on him, or take him to the bedroom. As you wish. In the end it is you now Hotwife. Some women love to tease their husbands a little. Others start doing blowjob already in the hallway. As you wish. Do what turns you on. Now you are home.

Some wives DO NOT like to watch and talk with their husbands, especially during the first few dates. However, some husbands want their wives to look at them during sex with her lover. Very exciting can be your words about how GOOD you are now, how MORE is a member of a lover, what is a member of your husband and how much BETTER do you feel with him. Husbands- "kukoldy" want their wives to experience the BEST sexual moments in their lives, so let them know that you are experiencing them now. the husband will hear how you REQUIRE your lover to cum in you. And of course your husband must see and feel every orgasm that you experience with a new lover. On the other hand, you can pretend that he is not here.They like to think that they are anonymously spying on your secret sexual connection. In any case, they want you to lose your head from having sex with your lover while they sit in the front row and enjoy the best real porn in their life.

Here are some tips for first meetings. ENJOY YOURSELF! Do not hesitate and do not brake. Do not be afraid to moan and scream with passion. Behave with your lover as if you were absolutely alone with him.

Many women feel constrained in the presence of her husband, but this will impede the achievement of the goal. He wants you to fight the cramps of wild passion, forgetting everything else (and least of all worried about your husband). This may take some time, but your goal should be to completely get rid of thoughts about him in these moments.

Here's another piece of advice - treat your lover the way you treated your husband during your FIRST DATE. Ladies, you know what that means. Free your inner slut! A lot of oral sex. A lot of sex in general. Many times if possible. Give your lover everything that he wants, until his gaze gets clouded and your legs start to weaken! After you finish, continue to pamper him as much as you do with your husband, right up to the farewell kiss in the doorway.

Do you think after he leaves, it's over and now is the time to sleep? Surprise, baby! The process continues.

The next step is VERY IMPORTANT if you want to continue to do so. It is important that your husband supports your lifestyle and is always there (literally or figuratively). Therefore, even if you are tired, you should immediately switch ALL your attention to your husband. Turn off those distant, wild Hotwife-style sexual games that you just played and become AGAIN HIS woman!

Let him regain his rights to you. Convince him that you are still his wife and that you love him EVEN MORE for giving you this night of pleasure! Depending on the couple, you can have (or not have) sex right now, or during the following days (this is your choice). Maybe he's already finished looking at you and masturbating. I know some husbands who look at sex wives without an erection, but over the next days after the date they fuck their wives like crazy. Many husbands want to clean up their wives. This is a process when a husband licks her lover's sperm from his wife's pussy or from her breast. This can be INCREDIBLY exciting for both partners! This is an instinctive reaction that is simultaneously responsible for the “return” of the wife to herself and at the same time she shows the husband’s submission to her pleasure. However, despite the fact that they want this, many husbands will not do it themselves. Your husband wants you to ORDER HIM to do this job.

It supports the dominance of women in sex in all walks of life Hotwife.

But each pair has its own differences. Do what suits you both.

But as soon as the other man leaves, you must again be in the arms of the husband and again become his wife and mistress. Make sure he gets love and pleasure, satisfy his desires in order to STRENGTHEN his desire to see again how you do it.

Over the next few days, convince him that you love him and take care of him, that you will always be his wife. It is especially important to remind him how you LOVE that he allows you to enjoy this way of life. Tell him how good it was for you this night. Tease him, remembering the events of this night again and again. Tell him you can't wait to do it again. Tell him how unique and confident he is, what allows you to share and how grateful you are for the freedom he gives you.

Most likely you will have wonderful sex with your husband for many weeks after this incident and he will become more attentive and loving than before you started playing these games. This is another benefit from such a lifestyle.After this happens, you become addicted to life in the style of Hotwife, just like him.

If you do this, this lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and in time will grow into the most amazing sexual life that you will enjoy together. Over time, he will receive maximum sexual pleasure from the fact that you are engaged in sex with others, no matter how crazy it sounds. And what could be better for you? You take control of your sex life. You explore such horizons in sex, which many married women cannot dream of. Your husband will love and adore you like never before, and you will BOTH get sexual satisfaction.

This way of life opens up an incalculable amount of new experiences, so you will never be bored. If you lay the right foundations of the relationship right from the start and follow them, you will find your supporting husband with a free look at the relationship and the freedom to do everything you want with his blessing. For me, there is no marriage better than marriage, open to sexual adventures. If my beloved husband was not involved in my new lifestyle, it is quite possible that we would have been divorced a long time ago and I would have been unhappy. Therefore, it is time for you to get started.

Translation - rattss