"Passive" means - not doing anything in sex on their own initiative. Therefore, the initiative in sex should come from you. Put the man on the bed. It is important that it is on the bottom, and you are on top. This will subconsciously affect him. Stay dressed yourself. He will feel embarrassed, because he is absolutely naked, and you are dressed. When kissing the partner, lower your lips with your body. Approaching the penis, do not touch it, but drop immediately to the scrotum. Play it with your testicles, go around the tongue between the penis and the anus - for most men this is a very sensitive area. Finally lick the anus ring, caress his tongue. By this time, the man will already be very excited and will certainly want to move to action. This can not be allowed, so gently, but surely cool his ardor, removing his hands. And go yourself to the caresses of his penis. He will not stand against the blowjob. You, working with your mouth, massage his crotch and anus with one hand. In this case, the partner must lie on his back, and his legs are separated to the sides. At the time of approaching orgasm, increase the pressure of the fingers on the anus. A man will get a stronger orgasm and remember it. You managed to have a non-vaginal intercourse, in which the initiative came only from you.

In subsequent contacts, actions should occur in the same scenario, with the only difference that you should gradually pay more and more attention to the perineum and the anus of a man. After several times, warming up a man thoroughly, ask permission to enter a finger in his anus. Say that you will use a lubricant, and it will not hurt him, that this thought very much excites you, etc. Try to insist on your own, tell me that you are doing a lot for him, and he could make you happy by allowing him to play with the anus. Most likely, he will agree. But if he refuses in spite of everything, ask him about it again another time, for the third, until he answers in the affirmative. When he agrees, proceed very carefully so as not to push him away. When he is excited enough, dip his little finger into his anus using a large amount of lubricant. Doing a blowjob, slightly move your finger, and at the time of approaching orgasm, earn more actively. Since there are a lot of nerve endings in the anus of a man, he will experience an unusually strong orgasm, and next time he is unlikely to resist small anal games.

Your partner does not know about it, but, having admitted your finger into his anus, he crossed an important line. For a while, stabilize your relationship at this stage, except go to the game in his anus not with his little finger, but with the index finger, and even better with the middle finger, which, as you know, means fuck, that is, fucking. At this stage, your partner will begin to get used to the fact that his orgasm is associated with the stimulation of not only the penis, but also the anus. Reduce the time of the blowjob by half: caressing the tongue of the crotch and anus of a man, masturbate his penis with your hand, and just inserting a finger in the ass, go to the blowjob.

During the next act, ask your partner to shave the hair on the pubic and testicles, arguing that they interfere with you when you caress his penis and testicles. The look of a hairless pubis will remind him of his childhood when he was a little boy and obeyed adults. Shaving the hair on your partner's body is also very important because he will avoid contact with other women, as he will be embarrassed to undress in their presence. Thus, his sexual desire will be directed only to you. For you, however, new great opportunities are opening up to influence it. It's time to take another step forward. Buy a small anal plug (about 1, 5-2 cm in the widest place) and during sex try to enter the anus of your man.Act with a cork just as you did with your finger. Whenever inserting something in a partner's partner, use a large amount of lubricant so that this process does not cause him discomfort. Reduce the duration of your work with your mouth: insert a cork in the anus and slowly begin to work it back and forth, as during intercourse. After 1-2 minutes, start masturbating your man's penis. Masturbate 3 quarters of the entire time of sexual intercourse, only at the end doing a small blowjob. After several sexual acts, take the dick in the mouth only when it starts to cum, bringing the partner to orgasm by simultaneously masturbating the member and the anus. You need to take a breather again.

In the next step, eliminate the blowjob from your side altogether. Just masturbate your man's penis with your hand, while stimulating his anus with a stopper. During this period, the "center of gravity" of your partner should finally move from the penis to the anus. Having stopped giving your boyfriend a blowjob, pay more attention to licking the testicles (but do not touch the penis with the tongue anymore), the perineum and the anus ring directly.

But before moving on to the main point, you need to take a few more small steps. First of all, you should no longer touch a member of your partner, even with your hands. Now you move in his hole at the beginning with a smaller, then more anal plug. After 15-20 minutes of your work on his ass, he quickly brings himself to orgasm with the help of his hand. By this time, he is unlikely to be able to experience an orgasm without stimulating the anus, or he will be very dim. This will bind the partner to you even more and will strengthen your already great influence on him. And once again, having developed your boy's anus with anal plugs, carefully insert your strapon into it using a large amount of lubricant. In principle, your partner has become accustomed to the rather long (about 20 minutes) stimulation of his hole. But now for the first time you entered it not with your finger or with a cork, but with your own strap-on, which is very important. The boundaries, where he can still retreat, he has not left and you, having made sure that the partner has relaxed, begin to make frictions. First, slowly, gradually increasing the pace. Now it is completely yours. It is best to have intercourse in a pose when your partner is lying on his stomach, placing a pillow under his abdominal cavity. This position is good because the man's penis is inaccessible and he will not be able to stimulate himself ahead of time, and will focus only on his hole. After you finish, without taking out the strap-on, roll over onto its side so that your partner can quickly bring himself to orgasm, masturbating with his hand.

Later, when your boyfriend gets used to the fact that during the act he should not touch his member, you can use other poses, for example, when he is doggy or lying on his back, throwing his legs around your neck (this position provides deep penetration of the anus). Over time, your partner will learn to reach orgasm without touching the member, only by stimulating the anus.