Yes, this is a family and there are different moments in it. Life is changing, it is diverse, it is monotonous. There are short, long, fixed moments. Colored mosaic scattered in a chaotic manner, consisting of different pieces, different shapes, colors, sizes.
It can be a different kind of disease. Oh god Yes, everything, anything - banal problems during pregnancy, before pregnancy (surgery) or after it. Maybe you will be banned from sex, maybe your husband, maybe both of you. Everything can be much worse - maybe even it will be impossible for some of you (or both) to even get excited. It can be all sorts of disorders, temporary (month, two).
In this case, most couples problems begin. Abstinence can be the cause of the quarrels themselves. Nobody has also canceled domestic quarrels. Bytovuha is inevitable, against the background of hormones (with the same pregnancy), against the background of fatigue, etc. Abstinence develops with domestic quarrels and everything becomes worse. Worse, worse, worse ... A vicious circle, a family plane falls into a corkscrew, approaching the earth ... Inescapability ... Doom ...
It turns out the reasons for the mass and they are all entangled by one problem. It would be nice to figure out what its essence is. Let's count on your fingers: For example, your husband, testosterone made a man. He is an integral part of your husband, and since you are now making up a pair, testosterone is an integral part of your life! Men's clothes in the closet, apartment (if lucky) for two - in general, one life for two. Two adults, of different sexes, with their needs, problems, disadvantages.
During pregnancy banned sex? This is not a reason to leave your husband alone. There are many ways to satisfy your husband, there are many ways to satisfy you. If you leave your husband alone with this, believe me - he will solve his problems ... Studies show that all men are engaged in masturbation. On this occasion, even a joke goes: There are two types of men: 1st. Who are engaged in masturbation. and 2nd. With nothing or nothing. It's funny ... But the worst thing is that there is no you in this joke. Understand what I'm talking about? Masturbation, the wife of which is sick, then she sleeps, then without mood. And around beautiful girls and treason, which no longer seems so alien and distant. Such thoughts clearly do not add mood. Young, handsome, wealthy husband? Are you proud? How lovely))))
Oral sex. Anal, although it is an amateur ... Not everyone will stand, and you will not get problems, not everyone is yet to agree. Yes, and with oral - perhaps it is your husband who will need to do this in a way that you cannot or will not want. Try your hand. Oh! Just do not say that you can not even touch each other. Wear a silicone glove. Play nurse. And how do you like this discovery - men also have nipples and they are no less sensitive than yours. Even if you can not bring him to a climax, participate in his masturbation, kiss, caress, hug, pre-caress him (if you can), well, or just be near. It is the best time to remember that we live in the 21st century - make the game a problem. Buy a “men's belt of fidelity” - be a strict nun, teacher, or both in turn, who captured Don Juan, which is popular among women. Use it as a prelude, an hour or two before the ceremonial release of her husband, before he gets a discharge. Hide the key from the belt lock or solemnly wear around your neck.
This game can be complicated - wear him (personally) a belt in the evening after work. Get used to it - try to leave it under lock and key for the night, for the weekend. Send it to the store with a chastity belt on.Just do not forget to give him with a duplicate key from the lock - this is still a game, and the game must first of all be safe. You never know what can happen and need to remove the belt. If intimate caresses are possible for you, play the “punishment” - let it satisfy you (with your tongue, your hands), and remain “under lock and key” and without satisfaction. When he gets used to the chastity belt, try sending him to work in it, and leave the key with you. Just do not forget about the duplicate, seal it in an envelope and seal it with tape. Only so that the envelope can be easily broken. Yes, it is to break - perhaps it will not be time to look for scissors to cut. Continuing the game, solemnly "examine" an envelope at home in the evening, check it for integrity. This is even a plus, if the envelope is torn without reason, then maybe you should talk. Just do not turn into a statue with a serious face, try to talk unobtrusively.
Remember, it is not always possible to say that the game is over. Get a short code word or sound that will mean “the end of the game” and that you urgently need to talk privately.
Feel it? You have returned to his intimate life - now all his sex is connected with you. Try to look for problems in the benefits - if you are comforted, then you will learn about the change first. Do not forget to give him signs of attention and amenity, tell him how this game turns you on, encourage him. You will notice how his attitudes change towards you. He will be more attentive and sensitive. Although there are drawbacks here - metal detectors can work, with a chastity belt on, he can walk “in the small” only by sitting, sitting only straight, and so on.
Do not throw each other, love each other. People have lived on Earth for thousands of years; it’s not necessary to think that you were the first to encounter problems. In the end, humanity somehow survived, still lives, and will live! There are plenty of ways to experience this “discomfort.”